If he's isn't looking to bottom, absolutely not a dealbreaker. Fun part about threesomes is there are tons of different ways to get down.
I am: tall, Black (if the screenname didn't tip you off), decently attractive, muscular, well hung (in case the screenname also didn't tip you off LOL), disease free and regularly tested, with most recent results on hand from 4/27/24, respectful, consent-conscious, conduct myself as a guest if invited over and pretty much act how I'd want a guest to act in my space.
Naughty interests include but aren't limited to: topping both, like mentioned in the title, her while us two guys engage in lighter play, fun threesome positions like DP/DVP, double oral, both of us guys catering to/pleasing her, both of us guys giving her a hot show, and am also open to some kinks, including toys in our play, and more. I'm pretty open minded, and worst case scenario I'll give a polite "No" to what you're into, or in the best case an enthusiastic "Yes!" or "Sure, I'm open to trying that"
HARD LIMITS
I don't bottom
I'm not submissive (this doesn't necessarily mean I have to be dominant; if I am and to what extent is ENTIRELY up to you two)
I AM NOT into being filmed, or having a lot of pics taken. Bad past experiences put me in a not-so-enjoyable headspace when a camera is brought out, so if this is a must for you two to have fun, we won't be a good fit. Figure I'll get this out of the way now.
Other limits are pretty common ones so I don't go into those unless you specifically bring them up
PLEASE DON'T
Demand nudes in your first, or any message you send. That shit'll get you ignored
Start talking in the DMs like we're in a paperback romance novel during one of the steamy scenes. This will also get you ignored. And laughed at
HMU if you live way across the country. I'm not into fantasizing or sexting unless it's with someone I've already played with
You two: be chill, close to my age, in the area, preferably able to host or open to splitting a room, decently in shape and genuinely wanting to play if we're a good fit and set a time/place to meet. Looking mainly only for late nights this weekend, or possibly something in the short term. Experience has taught me that the longer it takes to plan something like this, the less likely it is to ever happen. Not to sound impatient or pushy LOL. Just prefer people who are ready to pull the trigger if we're compatible and the vibes are there
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