Hello! I'd like to introduce myself. I'm Alex, 58 years young, in the Mission Valley area of San Diego. As my post title indicates, I'm married (and not in an ENM situation), and primarily looking for a married or attached woman who might be interested in an on-going fun and sexual relationship "of some kind." I say "some kind" because I feel everyone has a right to feel satisfied, appreciated, and wanted, and that isn't always something we find at home or in a traditional relationship. You and I probably know that all too well.

I would like to build something like a FWB situation where we can both get our needs met, but definitely not just a one night stand. Something discreet and local to somewhere near each other. Something on-going that works for both of our schedules, and allows us to spend time together in different ways.

I get asked what I'm into all the time. Honestly, my kinks and interests are your kinks and interests. I can usually get into whatever you're into, and I'm very open minded. If it's something I haven't done or tried, I might ask some questions about it and ask you to tell me why you love it, but generally I derive my pleasure from my partner. I have spent a lot of time in the Dom/sub and DDlg spectrum over the years, and I really enjoy it. I am what's known as a soft Dom or pleasure Dom, meaning that I am tuned in to my partner and it's about both of us deriving pleasure however we seek it. But that doesn't mean you have to be into it. The best part is that we can at least talk about each other's interests and kinks, and maybe learn something fun in the meantime. I'd love to hear what you're into, though. I'm not here to judge, so don't be shy telling me what you want.

Although the intimacy and sexual side of things is a big part of why I'm posting, that is not all I'm looking for. I would like to find someone I click with, and who wants to have more than just that going on. What that looks like is again up to us to decide. I don't have any preferences to age, skin color, body type/shape, orientation, marital status, and so on.

I hope this helps break the ice a little bit. If you're interested in talking about what all this might look like, and what would be a good fit for you, my DM's are always open. I'd love to hear from you. I'm pretty much an open book, so feel free to ask me any questions you have or if you just want to know more.