I've been on Reddit for several years but exploring a new side of my sexuality so created a new profile for that as it's not something I want my friends and siblings to know about at this time.

I have always been bi but more recently discovered a desire to be completely submissive to a dominant man. I've always had pretty vanilla encounters until a recent one where the guy was much more assertive, physical, and without another way of saying it, dominant. He gave me directions to follow, physically moved me to positions he wanted me in and it felt much more one directional than most all others and I absolutely loved it. We saw each other a couple times but he got a serious partner so we stopped seeing each other. I continued exploring more BDSM and kink topics, have lots more I want to try and experience and an looking for a Dom to do that with.

For now, just looking for something casual but hopefully somewhat regular encounters.

I am 38yo, white, 6'3", 240# (chubby but carry it well and am going to try losing some weight), 5.5" cut (if that matters). I have minimal experience but so far really like restraints, blindfolds, being directed and told what to do. I am very interested in slave training, service submission, spanking, rope bondage, degradation/humiliation, golden shower, nipple play, CBT, free use, CNC, and forced group use/service - to name a few. I feel a bit like a kid in a candy store wanting to try everything but know it should be paced. I really like sucking cock, bottoming and getting cummed on/facials as well but as mentioned earlier, finding I like a little rougher play than most of my experience so far. I'm also open and willing to try most anything else so if you have particular interests/desires, please share those. I do know my hard limits at this point are things that draw blood, leave marks lasting more than a couple hours, and scat.

What I'm looking for is a Dom with experience that is willing to help me learn and experience various kinks and BDSM play as he sees fit. Some of these may fit nicely into a one time encounter but many require more trust which would develop through more regular encounters. I prefer older men (40-70) but really open to any age as long as you have some experience and can help me safely explore. I don't care about race, height/weight or cock size, but prefer cut cocks. It's really about you being a confident Dom. I'm not looking for a LTR at this point, just casual fun and hopefully somewhat regular encounters.

If you've made it this far, thank you for taking the time. If you think we may be a good match, please message me with a little about yourself and ask whatever you'd like and we can go from there. I would like to chat a little first so we can align ourselves but not looking for endless messaging before getting together.