43 Male, athletic/fit / poly / open / ENM

7 years experience as a Dom and switch across a few different power exchange dynamics.

5’11, 175lb, green eyes, soft lips, nice smile. College educated. Steady heart and mind, predictable, warm. Emotionally available to create caring, trusting bonds in a polyamorous context.

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My sub of 2 years moved on when she left town and so I am looking for a local sub (San Diego or OC) for occasional and ongoing play.

I have a lot of experience with a wide array of kinks and a number of partnerships over the years, from sensual bound touch to limit pushing pain play.

I have recently been focusing more on sadomasochistic play: Bound play, electro play, impact, cnc, prisoner / military / interrogation scenes. High vulnerability, deep subspace, high helplessness play. Lots of primal play, bound sex, use of my hands and body and mouth, etc. Strict focus on safety: safewords, limits, and consent. You will be pushed but also be well taken care of and respected. Your pleasure and your complete contentment is also important to me. Play will develop as mutual trust does. I have primal lust and a Daddy heart. And always - always! - as much aftercare as you and I need.

Please send me a message if you are interested. I am very fit and active - please be at least in average physical shape and at least somewhat active. Also please be an amazing communicator.

“I attach my soft ankle and wrist cuffs to your naked body. You lay back and I secure you spread-eagle to the corners of the bed, your arms spread out above you, legs apart, and you listen as you are firmly restrained with soft clicks from every cuff. Your body is exposed and vulnerable, your breasts, armpits, stomach, and pussy completely defenseless. The most sensitive and fragile parts of your body are completely at my mercy.

I secure my blindfold over your eyes and give you a soft kiss, letting you lie there and quietly experience your helplessness. I tell you how completely vulnerable you are - how I have so much experience with the female body, and how it is so easy for me to make you cry out into your gag - but also how safe you are because my job is to take care of you while we are together….

Then I get to work on your exposed body…”