I'm a 41 year old divorced engineer living near Mission Beach in San Diego. I moonlight as a semi-competitive runner and keep myself in excellent shape. Between work, running and shared custody, I don't have time to date and pursue a traditional relationship. I'm looking for a female, preferably around my age or older, in a similar situation: busy with their own life/career but with needs of their own.Â
So of all the dicks, why pick this one? To start I live by myself, own my home, floss daily and generally have great hygiene. While I have needs, I'm responsible about them. I'm looking for one equally responsible person. I'd like to learn about each other's preferences and focus on them to maximize our mutual pleasure as opposed to a series of one-night stands. I don't masturbate because I like building up the anticipation, feeling dangerous and the idea that I'm saving this load for someone.Â
As with everything in life, I always put in my best effort and am constantly trying to improve. Sex is no exception. Sessions with my past partners last about thirty minutes- I know this not because I've kept time but because we have often found ourselves shocked with how much time has passed. That includes kissing, foreplay, sometimes a massage before getting to the real carnal part. I am a gentleman and work to get my woman off first.Â
What works best for me is to start with a phone call, then to meet up for coffee and if we're still clicking then go to the next step. Hope to hear from you soon.
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