Tackling the elephant in the post first, yes I'm attached and partnered. No, she doesn't know about this. Completely understand if that's not your thing or leaves you uninterested. If you're going to spend time judging me for this with comments or downvotes that's on you for deciding it's worth your time, not here to discuss or argue.

Alright, on to the good stuff. As mentioned, I'm in LTR and not looking to change it, but I'm a kinky guy with a high sex drive, and both of those dimensions are currently lacking for me.

I'm 37, white, easy going and laid back, experienced and love having sexy, dirty fun in a variety of ways. I'm looking for something discrete with someone who's interested in leaning into the fun with no strings attached. I want to start with a one time thing, and if the chemistry grows into an ongoing thing that'd be awesome, but not bringing any expectations to the table here.

I'm 5'11, blue eyes, dad bod with an active lifestyle, hairy chest, well groomed below the belt, average cock that I'm very comfortable with and confident in using to please (mostly a message for the size queens here, I'm not your guy). I'm articulate, intelligent, an established professional who's got my shit together and a good conversationalist.

I live by myself (no, she and I don't share a place), and I can host, travel somewhere else, or get a hotel for us to meet up.

I have a wide variety of kinks and interests which include: spanking, dd/lg, age play, impact play, face fucking, choking, restraints, bondage, race play, exhibitionism, voyeurism, breeding, cnc, tpe, free use, degradation and humiliation typically followed by praise, and more in the general d/s world. I'm not looking for all or even some of these in particular, I'm just sharing what my general style and interests are.

As you can see, my tastes are broad, and that extends to my fantasies. I'm not looking for any one thing in particular and I'm open to seeing where our unique vibe goes, but some ideas I've had are:

• A single mom who's super busy, hasn't gotten what she needs in too long and is craving a hard fuck that's simple and fun.
• A 21 white or asian college girl who likes older guys that wants daddy to take her shopping for lingerie only to take her home and ruin it when he has his way with her.
• A married woman in her 40's who's lonely, bored, and has a lot of time at home alone where she fantasizes about someone giving her the fucking she deserves and wants to play it out in real life.
• An 18 year old girl with daddy issues desperate to be an obedient little slut, wiling to take all the punishment and training she needs so she can hear what a good girl she is.
• A latina into race play who hates that she loves the idea of a white guy absolutely dominating her from behind while she's got her hands pinned behind her back, helpless, but soaking wet getting her pussy used for my pleasure.
• A bad girl of any age/race who gets off on the idea of being the dirty little secret, doing all the things I'm not getting now and being the perfect little fucktoy (note - I don't have a cheating kinky myself, but I think it'd be hot if you were turned on by the idea of fucking a guy who's cheating).
• A couple where either he wants to watch me take her hard in front of him, or where he and I dom her between us (for this one, even though I'm interested in rough dom/sub dynamics, I'm not looking to compete or get in the middle of your dynamic, looking to have mutual fun all around).
• Public play with a fellow dirty minded individual who wants to venture somewhere semi-secluded in public (beach, park, alley, parking lot, etc) and finds it hot that we could get caught at anytime while we're having fun.
• Some more intense and darker scenarios that would require more than one meet up to establish trust, communication, understanding and rapport that make sure we can have fun in a way that's ultimately safe for both us.

If you're interested but don't see something you think fits you or your interests above just hit me up and share what you're thinking. As I said, I'm super open to a wide range of scenarios, would love to hear what else you have in mind.

Sexual safety is key. I'm clean with tests to prove it, and while I'm playing outside my partner's boundaries, I'm not interested in risking her anymore than myself. Let's be respectful and play safe.

If you made it this far, you must be really interested in having some dirty, kinky, naughty, wild, crazy fun ;). Hit me up with a bit about yourself including your age/looks and what you're interested in and let's see if we click.