Hi everyone,

While I am more inclined for “traditional” ways of meeting people, I figured I’d give this a try. I’m looking for a friends with benefits who has great communication skills, can hold a conversation, is open about their wants/desires, and is emotionally aware of themselves and others.

Obviously, benefits is important to me but comfort and trust is obviously equally (if not more) important. I’m looking for someone who is willing to work up intensity both in the bedroom and in terms of friendship. If you’re not able to put in effort, please don’t reach out.

I’m conventionally attractive, have goals of my own, and pride myself on my values and beliefs. I hope you can say the same about yourself. The bottom line here is respect! I’m looking to pursue something that is more than just an effortless one night stand or hookup, and something ongoing that is mutually beneficial.

Please reach out if this speaks to you or you feel like it’s something you’d like to find. Have a great evening! This was a post that I saw but this was exactly how feel my situation is like as well and couldn't have summed it up better. I think the OP deleted their account but thanks for this.

About me sparks notes: I'm not just your average Joe. I'm looking for interesting people, good vibes, and great sexual energy. I'm practice alchemy by trade, roller skater in the evenings and a salsa dancer at night. I'm from the east coast and love exploring. I hike, play sports and protest(BLM/Free Palestine). If we match, let's grab a drink and exchange life stories. I'm looking for genuine connections.

A little about Me. NSFWish section

I have been life style for a numbers of years. In those years i have a number of positive experiences which led me down the path of exploring ethically non monogamy type situations.  I'm interested in finding a primary. While I'm looking for a primary, I won't stop myself from making connections or having experiences that are mutually beneficial.