So I am looking for something very specific and it may or may not lead to you fucking my wife. Here’s a little backstory:

My wife and I have had some adventurous sexual experiences in the past including mfm. We are an asian couple in our early 40’s, lat 30’s, professional and discreet. These experiences obviously changed after having kids. I am grateful that we had those experiences as I always fantasized about sharing my wife but never thought we’d ever do it. We’ve done it a total of 3 times, twice with the same guy who unfortunately moved away or we’d probably still be meeting with him. We also met with a couple one time for same room sex but found it much easier to find interested men. Each time there was a long screening process to make sure we were compatible, she was attracted, and of course disease and drama free. We knew all the risks and complications that could result, discussed it all, and went through with it. We both enjoyed it and I consider it the best sexual experiences of my life.

Now, here’s the problem. Sex after kids is significantly different than what it was. Gone are the days of spontaneous, loud fucking (and she can get loud). Sex these days is usually silent and quick after we get the kids to bed. Satisfying nonetheless. We talk about it on occasion and she says she’s still interested but hesitant now that we have kids as well as the risk of others finding out (among other risks). I let her know a number of times that I am totally ok with her fucking another guy as long as I’m in the loop about it so she knows she’s got the green light if she wants it. Adding another layer of complexity is her self-confidence. I think she looks great, she’s 4’10” black hair brown eyes, 98 lbs, 34b, nice hips and a round ass but, after having kids she doesn’t feel as sexy as she once did.

Here’s what I’m looking for:

- An attractive, fit, respectful, disease and drama free man between the ages of 25 and 45 who is willing to play the long game and not just expect to get into bed with my wife right away. This might involve running into her somewhere and flirting with her, letting her know she is still desired. Maybe exchanging phone numbers. Once we get this process started, I’ll continue feeding this idea to her and hoping she’ll bring up a guy she recently met who might be a good candidate. She’d done this before and is still into the idea so if there’s a connection, there’s a good chance it’ll happen. I don’t have to be involved in this but wouldn’t mind mfm either.

- Complete discretion. This is definitely a sinister plan and we can’t have her catching wind of it. As I am the primary contact, I’ll be doing all of the screening so we’ll be chatting quite a bit. I’m serious about this and not just posting to get myself off.

- The ability to host her or us. We have a full house and may have it to ourselves on occasion but it’s unlikely. We’d be willing to split the cost of a hotel room.

- Not a must but interested in being jo buds. I have had a few jo buds in the past and shared pics/videos of my wife with them which we’d jo to. I always thought it would be hot to have a jo bud get to fuck my wife.

If you’re still interested after reading all of that send me a message or start a chat here on reddit. We can figure out other ways to keep the conversation going. Thanks for reading.