First off, I'll say the fact that I have to even do this is a fucking waste of my time. This is petty, middle school level, bullshit drama, even worse because it's online. Like, why TF am I even having to do this???😂

BUT

One thing I'm NOT gonna tolerate is someone blatantly lying about me. I'm not gonna have people who are new to this community and perfect strangers take someone else's word, especially since they're a woman and supposed to be more trustworthy in the lifestyle, over mine without even interacting with me. I'm anonymous and all. But I still value my good name.

So, to name the person this is made for, it's PetAsianWife, whom many of you are familiar with.

This is why she CLAIMS she was banned:

https://imgur.com/a/ASnqgZW

This is why she was ACTUALLY banned:

https://imgur.com/QWrCO2B

https://imgur.com/6P8SeuB

https://imgur.com/H0CWkBe

https://imgur.com/a/pRd7hFO

That's the entire conversation she had with the mods. At no time did she claim that she was being pressured to do drugs, a concern I would've immediately addressed. Since the rules were intiated, I've come down on the "partiers" as hard as possible. Their shit gets deleted as soon as I see it, because I, and many others, don't want that in the sub. And at no time did you see any of us bring up that topic.

Her banning was SOLELY due to her conduct in the sub after the rules were established. And as you can also see, I even unbanned her after her initial ban because I felt she should've been given a clearer reason for it. Something I now regret

Once again, ALL of this is fucking stupid. Lying on someone else with easily disproven "facts", and for what? So you can get a few more subscribers? Absolutely unhinged. Cannot believe my week is starting like this 🤣

But like I said, being in the lifestyle myself, even if my theatergoing is adjacent to my main interests, your reputation and name are important. I still hope to meet people off here for fun, and I'm NOT going to allow someone to spread baseless rumors about me. Mainly just as a person. But even as a mod. Because I try to be as fair and even-handed with it as possible

This thread is far more attention than I ever wanted to give her again. And for the third time, THIS IS STUPID. But, I expected to deal with stupidity when I accepted the invite to become a mod, so also not super surprising