Original Post:

You just put our little one to sleep with a bedtime story (or two, until it took). When you come to our bedroom to get undressed and go to bed with me, you find me lying with my head hanging off the mattress, letting my hair hang loose. "Are you tired?", I ask. Married foreplay. "Because if you're not I would like for you to ride me. Can we do that?"
For actual foreplay, you step over and stand over my head, gently pressing your naked pussy against my mouth...

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Retrospective:

Lots and lots of black women, almost half of them in the US, apparently, have to deal with some degree of hair loss from traction alopecia or CCCA. Some choose to just go tabula rasa, others shave their head for other reasons. It's a valid style even if you'd have a full head of hair otherwise, with its own tradition, its own icons, it's own beauty.

I've had long hair for years in my youth, then not for a while, now again because pandemic-hair brought me half-way there and I decided to grow it out again. Men are supposed to have short hair. Wearing mine long feels on some level a little defiant and non-conformist. I'm fat so I feel a low level hostility against me and long hair feels a tiny bit like expressing "I reject your standards anyway, fuck you!" All in a very small way. Most of the time I don't think about it. But it feels nice when I do. I imagine rocking a bald head as a woman might give one a similar but probably even stronger feeling of defiance? I can only assume. What I know, is that from where I am, I've seen lots of bald women looking absolutely striking. <3

Someone planted the idea of gently playing with a lover's earrings in my mind. Had to come up in an audio eventually. Thanks for the lovely image, you know who you are!