For almost the whole weekend, we have the house to ourselves. You can finally be my submissive slut all day again, not just at night behind locked bedroom doors. Late Friday afternoon, just after we dropped them off, I had you stand in the living room, gently put your collar around your neck, turned you to face me, and pushed you to your knees. We've practically been playing since, aside from the hours spent passed out in each other's arms.

Saturday morning, I wake up before you, horny for you, impatiently waiting for our generously set alarm clock to signal it's cool to wake you now. I'm not done with you.

Welcome to the Let's Just Cuddle series!

As important it is to feel free to say Yes, consent would be meaningless if we couldn't also say No. In this series, we'll do that. Maybe you're tired, maybe I'm tired... Scenarios and characters are going to vary but the connecting theme is we're going to say No to sex and Let's Just Cuddle!

Part of why I would like to do this is I know some of you haven't been given space and freedom to say No. You had to get used to being worn down, to repercussions like fights, guilt trips, tantrums or withdrawal of affection so it became easier to just say Yes, if possible. I'm hoping this series can help you get (re-)used to normalcy. Where saying Let's Just Cuddle is okay.

Retrospective:

I hear about too many submissives having their submissiveness questioned if they don't feel like doing something. "A real submissive doesn't say No", etc. It's transparently manipulative, but no matter how transparent, it can creep deep.

If someone is feeling submissive, I think they want to demonstrate their value to you by showing themselves to be useful, obedient and selfless, and they feel validated if you take them up on that and enjoy them. Casting doubt on whether they're even a "real submissive" then, is preying on their identity and threatening their avenues of validation and how they show love. That's ugly. I'd like to offer this audio as a bit of insulation, of sorts, against such (manufactured) doubts. Even if I'm telling you nothing new, it may still feel good to hear it said out loud. :*