Recently the idea of same room, no swap has entered our pillow talk while my wife and I are having sex. It's been really hot and definitely gets us both going talking about it and thinking about it. And then afterward, we just chuckle and go back to our lives where that's not a part of the conversation.

I'm curious if there's anyone else out there in a similar boat? Maybe who've fantasized about it but haven't pulled the trigger yet?

And for other people who have, how did you transition from a fantasy or dirty talk during sex to actually giving it a shot? What was that experience like for you?

Interested in everyone's perspective, but also very interested in hearing wives/girlfriends' experience, whether they initially broached the idea or not.

36/m/Socal here and just looking to learn through other people's POV here. Feel free to DM if you don't want to comment.