I met this Sag girl about three months ago, and we have incredible chemistry. She works as a cashier/server at a small restaurant in my town. When we first met, she caught my eye right away and was super direct, asking me how tall I was and saying it was hard to find “tall guys to date.” I asked for her number, and she literally jumped up and down with excitement, gave me a big hug, and told me she’d “see me soon.” She mentioned she was going through a messy breakup and couldn’t be in anything serious, but I didn’t think much of it at the time.

After that, I was texting her maybe once a week, inviting her to hang out, but she kept giving excuses about why she couldn’t meet and delaying, until at one point she never responded. The next time I saw her, she apologized for being flaky and explained that her ex saw one of my texts come through on her phone and freaked out about it, but that she found him a place and he would be moving out soon. She then gave me her Facebook so we could chat there, and told me it’s better because he doesn’t have access to that.

A couple of weeks later, I invited her to visit again, and she initially agreed. But later that evening, she left me a voice message explaining that her ex hadn’t moved out yet and freaked out when she mentioned she was going to go see someone. She confessed she’s had a huge crush on me since the day we met and really wants to see me, but doesn’t want to make promises about when and end up disappointing me again.

It’s confusing because in person, she always rushes over to give me a hug right away, gives me her full undivided attention, and flirts with me pretty much the whole time. She’s been really straightforward, even telling me she wants to sleep with me. But the wait is killing me!

Normally, I don’t wait around for people who flake like this, but we have some really crazy things in common, and she’s one of the most gorgeous, unique, and cool people I’ve met in a very long time. It takes a lot for me to feel genuinely attracted to someone and I feel that with her. Last week, when I saw her again, she was all over me and said, “I’ll text you soon,” but of course she still hasn’t reached out.

Is this typical Sag behavior? Any advice would be appreciated. 🙏🏼 💔