Have you grown tired of the “doms” that spank you for 15 minutes then demand a blow job? Or the guys that need pictures within the first few messages? Or who seem only interested in getting right in to some sort of sexual acts?

Would it be a welcome change to find an experienced, fit & attractive Dom who understands both the physical and mental aspects of what you need? Who won’t pressure you for nude pictures, rather who will take the time to get to know you, your needs and wants? A mature man that will take an interest in what’s worked for you in the past and what didn’t and rather than fitting you neatly into a pre-set, pre-determined ‘sub box’ will chat with you to help figure out what works best for you?

Admitting to yourself that you’re submissive, that you enjoy being controlled (discretely, consensually and in the right circumstances) that pain (when administered correctly and in consideration of your emotional state) can result in an amazing release of positive endorphins into your body, that you need discipline and punishment to function at your optimal level can be a very difficult thing but at the same time it can be a big emotional release. Admitting those same things to a man, potentially your next Dom, can be very embarrassing and humiliating to experience, but again also very releasing emotionally. As if the world was just lifted up off your shoulders.

Curious females with no experience are welcome to ask any questions that come to mind (no judgement here). As well, women with a level of experience are welcome to contact me to discuss your specific needs, and again ask any questions you feel are important.

Should things progress, we will always move at a pace that you’re comfortable with. Your hard limits will always be respected, without question, nothing will happen you don’t want to happen. And your privacy is always very important, everything stays between us (though you are welcome to share with whoever you want).

A bit of a long post, but it gives you something of an insight into who I am. (I’m a man that’s lived a bit of life, that’s more interested in being comfortable and I enjoy spanking women). And I’m as frustrated as you. If you’ve read this post and find it stirs something inside you, if you’re serious, send me an anonymous DM chat request. Feel free to give me an idea of who you are. We can discuss this opportunity further and decide if this is a good fit that meets our mutual needs and desires.

I’m in London, Ontario, Canada and open to any woman who is a legal, consenting, adult. I’m very open minded and creative, but nothing illegal.