Honestly the best way to get to know me is read my reply history, but this is the “short” and sweet version.

A little about me, then I’ll go into what I’m looking for.

I say life coach Dom because I enjoy helping people in general. But as you submissive I would help with achieving life goals (and sexual goals of course). From school to work, credit score, family and friends, or even social issues. I’ve helped guide and teach people my whole life, let me help you.

On the flip side, I have a dark kinky side that I want to indulge in. I don’t mind taking it slow, or holding back, for the right person.

I’m 36, 6ft and thin build. I’m the typical business guy that wears button down shirts, blue jeans or slacks.

About me: I enjoy gaming, art, music, and enjoy learning about of lot of things. So I want to know about your hobbies and life.

My kinks: I enjoy directing play scenes, rules, punishments, bondage, training, anal, degradation and humiliation. I’m sure there are others as well. I’m a fan of my submissive dressing up and then seeing girls become full sluts.

My dynamic looks very close to a master/slave, but I am understanding of life. It’s very hard to have that online, but over time it can be close.

I enjoy facial reactions more than anything. You should be ok with that, even if it takes time.

I also love experimenting and being creative.

I have a very high sex drive. 9.5/10 even when I’m not turned on, I like to talk about sex or want to see you doing kinky/sexy things for me. If I didn’t have self control I’d qualify as a sex addict lol.

About you: I’m looking for a submissive that fits most of my kinks. It’s that simple.

Extreme kinks is a plus.

Not looking for really bratty subs. I don’t mind a little, but it’s not my thing.

You need to be comfortable using snap, sharing pics and videos. I respect people that don’t want to, and the trust to get pictures and videos must be earned. But this is a must for me. I get off to video and audio of facial expressions.

And very safe, I’m going to be protective of your identity as well as mine.

I usually prefer petite, fit, or hourglass figures. I’m open though, because many girls say they’re not petite but to me they are.

Age: I do like younger girls but have better dynamic with 25-35.

You must have a high sex drive, or want to be used by someone with a high sex drive.

Bonus points:

1. A non-US accent. European, Pakistani, New Zealand, Australia, or a few others.

2. Enthusiastic. It’s ok to be a worthless pathetic piece of shit, but you have to embrace that and be enthusiastic about pleasing your Dom. This is important at first especially, be aggressive for attention and offering to do things.

I enjoy talking and I will ask a lot of questions to make sure we’re a good fit.

If you read this at all, send me a message and let me know what grabbed your attention the most.

Include what you look like, tops kinks, test results form bdsmtest dot org, and anything you specifically liked about my post.

Be ready to make a verification photo if you have potential.