Just had a not so great interaction with a Redditor. Nothing super bad but wasn’t great either. I’m a dude and hold my own pretty well but sometimes when I chat with other dudes from Reddit I get creeped out and they cross some of my lines too. So ladies, gents, themes, and all pls be safe.

I have some safety tips that I practice that I’d like to share. Pls share yours if you want(:

• only record on the girl’s (or sub’s) phone. This lets the girl think about if she wants you to have it. If she does she’ll send it to you.

• if meeting someone new ladies maybe take their phone during the deed if you don’t want to be recorded. I like to put my phone in another room or in my dresser and let the girl see so she knows I’m not trying anything funny.

• if meeting off the Internet I like to do a PG irl meet during the day at somewhere very public. To check vibes, confirm looks, and to look out for any red flags.

• if chatting online state a no unsolicited pic rule from the start if you’re not cool withbrecieving them. It should be common practice for people to ask first before sending but it’s not always the case.

• practice monotoned texting. Sounds dumb, but not instigating sketchy people with sass could prevent a messy conversation. Don’t always do it but if you sense an altercation coming up then switch to monotoned.

• if you group play and you can’t get everyone to agree on a rule then walk away. Not getting an explicit and communal agreement is a red flag in my book.

I’m no saint but I am trying to be freaky ethically and keep people I’m involved with safe and feeling good after the fact. I’ve made some mistakes down the road in dating so I understand people aren’t my perfect. But ethical, safe, and lite hearted fun is possible and awesome haha.

Stay safe my friends. And I appreciate y’all tolerating my posts😅😊