I told this story to someone last night, and I wanted to post it here because I think it may be awesome for some to read. My ex-husband of 7 years thought eating me out 1-2x monthly was kink. And like a lot of women (I think), I downplayed my enjoyment during sex (I know 🙄) for 19 years because I was afraid I would be perceived as a whore. Not long after this event I’m going to describe to you happened, I had an epiphany…BEING A SLUT IS SO MUCH FUN…and men love slurry girls, and women who are sluts tend to enjoy sex way more than those who take it negatively.

Here is my experience I shared with a friend recently:

For me, the draw to additional people in the bedroom happened when I got to kiss, make out with, and flirt with my bf as he was getting his dick sucked by some hottie rando at a swingers party.

I never been at that location during my partner's blow job. How much it turned me on that he was getting off like that 🥵🥵🥵 holy shit. I didn't care who the fuck was doing whatever. It had nothing to do with that person. I was in his face, we were kissing, he loved me, I thought it was so awesome that he was so turned on.

It was honestly one of the most intimate moments I've ever had with a bf, and ironically, the woman as well. Our relationship was lukewarm otherwise but I’m that moment it was insanely intimate. And the girl and I bonded deeper and fucked often for years. I thought she was like a goddess. She helped me make my man feel amazing, and she very much enjoyed us basically using her (in the moment) to heighten our pleasure and connection as a couple. None of it was selfish or sneaky. Ever. Not so true always, but that's why I try and vet the FUCK out of a couple before I'll get naked with them.

Oh man that party shifted everything for me. And sex became more about how much FUN I was having and how turned on I could GET MY PARTNER.

Not "how hot do I look?" "how hot does HE think I look?" "Am I being too slutty?" "Should I have came by now?"

And discovering this opened up a whole world of people who weren’t hung up on their moral issues around sex. Who have almost always welcomed me into every situation, clothed or not🫠, with open arms, wet pussies, and rock hard cocks.

I have found my people and I fucking love them. Also, I love fucking them.