Ima just be honest and say as a young person who just grew out there hair, I have no idea how to style this. I just know that I don't like my hair atm and I want to get it cut or stylized but I don't want to go back to short hair. I would prefer to go to a place that can help me figure out what I want or who is knowledgeable enough to suggest a style/cut for me. I have pretty bad social anxiety and it always makes me uncomfortable when they ask me what I would like but I really have no idea.

If the extra details help I have thick straight hair that is currently shoulder touching length. my head shape is round, I am a male but I like more femininely hair styles (Mostly because I don't see a lot of guys with shoulder length hair)