Hey you can see my previous entries on my profile for more details and pics, but basically the long and the short is that I'm interested in a long term poly relationship for myself and possibly my wife if you're interested in that. I have permission from my wife to be fully sexually autonomous and just kinda go for what I choose. She's interested in a poly relationship, too, but essentially I'm point on this and the heavy lifting and discretion on the matters is on me, so you'd be starting with me. If I'm all you want then we have our relationship and that's that, if you want us both we'll all come together and figure things out.

They've been a few interested folks who asked good questions, and so I'll throw them here incase any fence sitters are trying to decide.

Am I into ebony? Fuck yes.

Am I into BBWs? I used to be 70 lbs heavier 2 years ago, and yeah, some body fat or lack there of doesn't phase me one way or the other.

Am I willing to do short flings? Maybe needs a little selling but not a whole lot, it's just not what I'm directing my energy towards, but yeah, shoot your shot.

Is my wife interested in being shared with other men? Fuck no, and that's why we're looking for F's and FF's. Also, I had a message where the dude proposed that I would obligate my wife to have sex with him and he would do the same for me, and that guy's blocked so he won't see this, but if you also do this, you need to stop. It's exactly why it's so hard out here to get women to talk and post and put it what they want and why we're inundated with so much sold content. People like that make unsafe environments and the whole community suffers. I can't make my wife have sex with anyone, and the notion that I could obligate her to sex with someone she doesn't know in exchange for anything is fucking disgusting.

Am I interested in other men being involved in the situation at all? No. I'm hyper competitive towards other dudes, don't find other people's penises attractive or interesting and it's just not going to be fun for either of us or any woman stuck in the middle of that. Probably what I and/or we are good for is single moms, women with high demand careers, and/or highly introverted types who don't need the stress of more standard arrangements.

Who is hosting? You at first, then we'd transition that over to us as needed. And don't worry, I've got a good cover for us if you're concerned about nosy neighbors.

Now all that said, message me if you're interested, we'll talk, exchange pics and set up a meet time and location. Good? Good.