Delete this, or block me from this group if you want, but this post is about the time waster in this group and how their actions are ruining it for everyone else. And I’m not talking about the people that chat on here then ghost you, I’m talking about the men that agreed to make up make plans and then ghost you or just bail on you last minute.

As a parent of 2 it’s not easy for us to find time to get out so when we do our time is valuable so we try to make the most of it, but this weekend we were stood up three times, three times in one weekend. Now I’m not going to name names but it’s all from people in this group. On Friday we agreed to meet at a bar with a single gentleman, we talked with him all week about these plans, and for some reason Friday at 5 he realized he had plans for people to come to his house that night, Like come on.

So in an effort to salvage the night we replied to a couple that reached out to us to meet them at the casino. We chatted for a bit and we told them we were on our way. Got to the casino messaged them a few more asking where they were and no reply. Boom ghosted more time wasted.

And at that point we swore we were done with this. But one guy reached out saying he was really interested so we made time for him Saturday night, which isn’t easy with kids and all and boom when time came to meet up ghosted and no show again.

So 3 times ditched. And that’s just this weekend not counting the other 2 times this year it happened to us. You men like to talk a big talk and say how you’d love to be with us and fuck my wife but when the chips are down your balls tend to shrink inside you like the scared little turtles you are. So to the 3 that wasted out times thanks for the very frustrating weekend. ✌️