Hi there! I'm Sam. Hope the title caught your attention. I'm a 22F looking for an irl connection to lose my virginity to. I've found I don't feel much sexual attraction without such a connection. I'm not just in this for the sex, I want a companion I can trust to guide me through my first time. Kink us important, but trust and feeling safe comes first for me. I've only ever played around with doms or sexual stuff online, never in person. I want to change that.

A little about me:

In my lazy time, I like to crochet and play video games and boardgames, liking the challenges they offer. I love roleplay and ttrpg (I've plays dnd, call of cthulhu, savage worlds, and will soon be playing avatar: legends). The games I like are things like portal, minecraft, sims, tomb raider, and basically anything cozy/creative.

I'm not exactly the sexy type. I'd more so say I'm cute and soft. I'm a little plus size, and I have a rounder face shape. I have short hair I'm trying to grow out, blue eyes, and usually wear round glasses. I'm around 5'7 and 260lb (if that matters).

I also have a curious side, intrigued by exploring new facets of life, including the realm of kink. I've known for a long time (at least 11 years) that I found the d/s dynamic appealing. I've known for just as long that I like shibari and bondage. Even if not sexual, I'd love to have a partner to explore this, and other kinks, with.

I am looking for a Dom or Daddy who:

• Is between 25 and 35 y/o
• Can host
• Is in the STL area
• Takes initiative in conversation
• Displays effort and takes genuine interest
• Has a good amount of experience and is willing to teach me intimate things patiently
• Asks a lot of questions to help me overcome my shyness
• Values communication and cherishes a true connection
• Provides reassurance and praise, nurturing my self-esteem
• Enjoys quality time (gaming, watching shows/movies, playing boardgames, etc)
• Has a brat tamer side for when I get comfortable with you.... I tend to start pushing back when I get comfortable ;)

If you're compassionate, open-minded, somewhat outgoing, and like curvy girls with thick thighs, let's have a conversation and see where it leads. I very much would like to eventually meet in person.

Hope to hear from you <3