We are starting out on this lifestyle journey and have been enjoying every bit of it so far. I have previous experience but have been bad experiences so we're both new when it comes to actually enjoying it. The dynamic is hotwife (stag/vixen). I enjoy watching her be pleasured and enjoying herself. That's literally my main interest in all of this. She's an amazing woman and deserves every bit of it. I am NOT A CUCK! We are both very open with what is said and done in this lifestyle and I help her make decisions on who what where and when. She respects me as I respect her and we both require that from whoever we play with.

HER TYPE: She likes a chubby blue collar hard working boot wearing bearded tattooed guy. Beer drinking, witty and playful and fun. She enjoys sarcasm to a slight degree but doesn't care for cocky arrogant assholes. Just friendly playful witty banter will get you a long way with her. She doesn't fully enjoy guys that can't hold a Convo and are basically just sticks in the mud. She either wants someone that's single or married with permission. If you are wanting to play behind your wife's back, just don't really bother. Now if you have full permission, we are adults there's no need to "verify". We just don't do drama and respect others relationships.

WHAT SHE LIKES: She loves dirty erotic talk. In bed and through texting. She enjoys being ate out and ass ate too. Loves nipple play. Enjoys being fingered and clit rubbed and sucked. Starting out with someone new she wants basic normal sex. Nothing crazy or to wild. As she gets used to the man over time she will open up to virtually anything else. Just wants to ease into it. Dont expect to have her wrapped up in 93 positions on day one.

THINGS TO KNOW: She calls the shots when things are happening! If certain positions hurt her or whatnot, she'll be fine voicing it. Continuing to force it will end up bad. Remember the whole point of all this is for her pleasure and yours and mine too obviously, but hers first and foremost.

We are looking for a friend or friends that are willing to hang out on occasion, have some drinks, meet up at restaurants. Go fishing or hiking and stuff like that. She would be so much more comfortable doing the sexier naughtier things with someone that she's comfortable with in and out of the bedroom. I will be present and either watching or videoing and taking pics. I may join in slightly to the degree of maybe eating her out while she gives u head. Or getting head while you are fucking her. Stuff like that but mostly I'm there enjoying her being pleasured.

Scenario: Hey bud we're heading to the bar for some drinks come hang out. And you show up and have drinks with us chatting and laughing. Then obviously we head to either a hotel or back home and things progressed naturally from there. After she's comfortable, then maybe that ride back home she'll ride with u alone and who knows what will happen in the car ride.

Or hey were goin to the casino this weekend come hang out. You show up and have a drink with us and all that and head to the casino hotel room and have fun.

Or hey bud we're goin fishing. You come hang out and fish and chat and end up getting head at the lake. Lol who knows. But basically we want a friend for us that gets the perks of enjoying her too.

She isn't looking for another "boyfriend" or best friend. She has that. So the constant good morning beautiful and all that shit doesnt need to happen and will probably end up turning her or I off. She does like for the guy to persue her though and compliment her pics and show interest, just understand that it's not allll the time everyday. Her ideal would maybe be a time or two a month with a few more sexting sessions in between. If she's comfortable and wants more than so be it. So I hope this all helps you and if you've read it this far, you're pretty interested so shoot me a message with your age and a couple pics and relationship status