So I have a lot of issues going on in life I'm getting under control. Feel free to ask me about my tormented past. But unfortunately I'm just not able to have a relationship right now because it would fall apart.

If you value the comfort, emotional connection, and sense of security in sex as much as the actual sex then this post might be for you.

I have had a few hookups over time. They were all nice people, but they didn't really want to talk at all. They just wanted to roll dirty and roll out. I've realize this just isn't something that works for me. I leave just feeling icky inside and out.

Something most people have told me after a day of talking with me is this, I'm a sweet person. I don't really try to be, I just want every human to have/be the best they can. I wish love and joy for everyone and I don't believe in imposing opinions or judgement onto others. I care very deeply for everyone. Strangers, animals, who or whatever. I just care a lot.

Its been hard for me to have a comfortable connection because people are either too mild/vanilla and have the emotional side down, or they have a big bag of kinks but aren't nearly as interested in forming some kind of emotional connection before the sex. So a lot of times I've gone through both and it hasn't been too fun.

Very specifically I'm looking for someone who can handle being very kind, loving, and sweet with eachother but understand that it's for the comfort and it's confined to coming and going. As much as I'd love to have a partner right now it's just not in the cards and won't be for a while as I undergo therapy to heal.

Some stuff about me: I am very sensative and very emotionally in tune. I know what I want and what I don't. I know how anything and everything makes me feel and I'm comfortable talking about it.

I am a Reiki healer. Which comes into play a lot in bed. (Google it if you wish)

Im an absoutle lunatic with sex. I think most of my friends have imagined me being a vanilla person because of my nature. Really though, for me sex has very little do to with me finishing. Having an esp, I can sense how things feel for other people. Typically my goal over an evening isn't just to make my partner cum either. It's about a long build up where I slowly peel the sense of reality for them. To me a fun time is when you lose the ability to speak normal sentences. When it becomes hard to walk. When you're shaking and can't stop. When you're mind is completely, and totally blank. That to me is the whole point of sex. I do get there through many ways but mainly with Reiki, I can feel how they feel things and I'm able to use my energy to sort of "electrify" the environment. I know when to do more and when to go slow for build up. It's very therapeutic for me. Usually what I shoot for is to give the sense "all perception of reality is gone and I can't feel anything beside being a cloud" some people cum a lot and thats fun. Some people take sooo much to cum and that's just as fun. Im a very patient person.

My baseline with people is treating them like they're family or bff's. It's just how I am and some people it throws off a lot.

Im okay with age gaps, I am an all body type person, all I ask is that you understand all that I put here and be comfortable with things.

If you want pictures of me, just ask.

Some final physical notes of me Im 6'3, I have a shorter beard w/a shaved(bald) head and painted nails. (I'm non binary) Average body type And my dick is a chick and her name is goldilocks. Goldie for short, and shes a thicc chick.

If you got all the way here, thanks for reading, and if you vibe with all this I'd love to hear from you.