Human sexuality is a messy affair. Many aspects of sexuality can be neatly carved into sections, gay, straight, bisexual, curious, etc. etc. etc. However, it seems that human sexuality is also very much influenced by social norms. Think about it, if men who have sex with other men was not considered taboo, if it wasn't considered to be an issue at all, would men (or anyone else for that matter) respond to the advances of the same sex as men do in our society today? I think they would not respond the same.

Someone once said that human sexuality was a messy affair and described it like a Jackson Pollock painting. Kind of all over the place. Further, is all sex born out of desire for a particular kind, or type of person? Is sex born out of desire? Attraction? Yes, it can very much be those things, but there is also space for more murky grey grey areas of sexuality. For instance, is it possible that one can have sex with someone that they feel no desire or even attraction for? The answer is absolutely. Can that kind of sex be gratifying, even normal? Yes, it absolutely can be. And here, this next question is where we land here, can some people desire sexual pleasure, for the sake of the pleasure itself? Absolutely yes.

This is a community for men who have sex in the grey areas of human sexuality. Men who can have sex with another man yet completely identify as straight. Further, this is a community for men who have sex with other men out of lust, or out of simply the desire to experience pleasure with no strings, no trappings, no need to identify as anything other than sex positive. If you are the kind of man who enjoys the pleasure of sex for the sheer pleasure of making your body feel good, this is the place for you to reach out to others who may feel similarly as you do. This is a place where you can allow yourself to define your sexuality as you see fit without the trappings of "heteronormative" society labeling you as they see fit. You can be as open, or as closed as you want to be about how you identify. In other words, if you feel more comfortable keeping your activities or curiosities secret, that is your choice to do so, you have your reasons and it is not anyone's business or right to tell you otherwise.

Welcome, hedonist. You are welcome here.