I am a 27 year old, slim-fit, white man seeking a kinky cis girl in or near St. Louis for ongoing kinky play. I am able to host, but if you would prefer to that's fine too.

I am very open minded, easy going, and respectful of your limits and needs. My sexual interests are very experimental; suggest pretty much anything and I'll try it at least once. Personally, I am into BDSM, watersports, fisting, hole stretching, anal play, enemas, diapers, tickling, electro play, needles, latex, sensory deprivation, orgasm control, urethral sounding, and more. Both giving and receiving appeals to me for most kinks; I like both sides! Totally aware many people aren't into all of those, and I won't try to pressure you into trying something you don't like. Consent and negotiation are important to me. I don't expect you to be into everything that I am and that's okay!

My ideal partner is a girl who is either already kinky or wants to explore more sexually. Kinkiness is the main attribute I am seeking. Whether you already know what play you like, or have only ever had vanilla sex, I can accommodate your comfort and experience level. I have played in the past with experienced people as well as complete newbies. Looks don't matter too much, it's more the kinky or experimental mindset that I am attracted to. (Men that does not mean you. If I meant that, I would have said it.)

Something ongoing would be perfect. I'm searching for a fwb type relationship, but am open to romance if we hit it off. However, I am not looking to develop romance before meeting up. Real life compatibility is important. I have no expectations; if we meet up and don't vibe, it's all good. You can back out any time and I won't be offended. Just don't ghost; if you're no longer interested, please tell me and I'll move on.

I am not looking for someone who is not single. Not looking to be involved in a polyamorous situation. Sorry, it just makes things too complicated.

I have a large collection of toys, implements, and bondage equipment. I also make my own bondage equipment sometimes. I've built a spanking bench and a head restraint device, and eventually I want to make a custom leather head harness. Ask me about my toys, I love talking about them! I can nerd out for hours about sex toys!

My interests outside of kink are dancing and cars. Swing and salsa dancing are my favorites and I am building a rally car to hopefully race in the next year or two. Feel free to ask about these or tell me about your own interests! Kinkiness requires trust so let's get to know each other. Freaks in the sheets are still normal people in the streets.

If you're interested, send me a chat with your age, sex, and location. Open to playing right away, but totally understand if you want to talk a while or meet up in public for drinks or something first. We can become friends first and build trust if that is your comfort level. I can move as fast or as slow as you like. Also, if you're on FL, mine's on my profile if you want to check it out.