had a fling come to me 3 weeks after we had sex saying she might have herpes. She says she has lesions but got tested and came up negative. it’s been about 45-50 days since we had sex and i’ve had no symptoms of anything. Been stressing and i very easily get ingrown hairs due to my hair texture and it’s been scaring the life out of me. I know i should go get tested just for peace of mind but. how do you think my odds are. i don’t think i have it for the fact that most carriers have symptoms in less than 2 weeks. she’s blocked me for some reason even though i was the one that she may have given it to so i can’t get any updates from her