I've been out of the bowl for more than 8 years. Over the last couple years, I have checked in several times to see if I could find that right SB. Sometimes, the POTs just didn't click. Other times I met some great ladies but my own availability got in the way of pursuing. To be clear, none of these progressed further than casual M&G because I have no interest in physical if I don't see a path to ongoing connection.

I'm here to try once more.

I'm not single and don't want to change my primary situation, but I am emotionally available within reasonable limits. Genuine connection is important to me, the friendship and mentoring aspects of this lifestyle being as important to me as the physical.

A big ole brain is very sexy to me, so high achieving students and career minded women to the front of the line.

I can see through hustlers from a mile away (not nearly new at life) so if you have a "get the bag" mindset you'd waste your time replying.

If you're sincere, if you'd like to satisfy needs in your heart and mind as much as your wallet, we may mesh.

I'm open to all body types with a preference for people who take very good care of themselves and make healthy choices most of the time.

Age of an SB isn't nearly as important to me as maturity. Don't get wrong, I like to have fun and appreciate goofiness and laughter, but with a friend who has their head on straight, is reliable, predictable and sane.

Also, not against the idea of remote/long distance if the fit is exceptional.