Hi, everyone!

I (25 Asian F) wanted to post on here to widen my horizons outside of SA and don’t enjoy free-styling. I’ve been in the bowl for 6 years now, and every time I return to the site, the process seems to get less appealing and more difficult. And there’s something attractive about a SD following this thread as well :).

I would love if this thread could do a “mixer” of some sort 😂, but for obvious reasons, that’s unimaginable.

I’m currently in a happy long-distant arrangement, but since we don’t see each other frequently, I’m hoping to find another genuine connection! He understands that I’m exploring additional arrangements as well.

Some times, it’s fun to speak to strangers and evaluate communication and compatibility under the veil of some mystery, too.

I’m based out of Manhattan, but travel down to DC often for work (2x/mo). I’m well-educated, observant, on the shorter side (5’), size small or women’s 4, long hair and dark eyes. I prefer an experienced, clean-cut, quietly confident SD who values discretion.

I enjoy snowboarding, dabbling in some squash and golf, and take pride in my eye for fashion and design!

My previous partners have described me as direct, trustworthy, unexpectedly multi-faceted, kind, and well-balanced (e.g. femininity and masculinity, down-to-earth but appreciates nice experiences, intelligent but always curious to learn without ego).

If you’re also slightly jaded by the daunting search process on SA and interested in seeing if we could be a compatible match, please feel free to say hello! If you’re just looking for advice in your own arrangement, I’m happy to shed any insight from a SB’s perspective, too.

Maybe I’m just too bored with my life at the moment 🤷🏼‍♀️, but thought why not try my luck on here. Thanks for the time in reading!

Happy seeking to everyone.