So we are in our mid-40's, Chinese, both working professionals with active lifestyles and reasonably fit, with our own homes and mobility after being divorced. We met on a dating app and are now close friends with benefits who enjoy being play partners. In terms of what we've tried, we've done srs and very very rarely swaps if there's a real vibe with the other couple, and also MFFs. Just to share abit of what we're looking for and the kind of couples or female partners we tend to play with: -we don't play on first meets, prefer to do a drink to get abit of a vibe test -we tend to play with those with active or fit lifestyles, and also we can have chill conversations with beyond just play -G is a cuckquean and bi-curious, so our most complimentary play partners tend to be couples who enjoy having bulls, or have cuckold tendencies, or women who enjoy bi-curious play. That said, we're also open to just SRS and sticking to our own partners with couple play. -if there's any play beyond SRS we take testing seriously and do so quarterly, and will only do so with couples who do the same. -we don't exchange pics until after we've had a chat for a while, as there's too many pic collectors around. But we're certainly ok with that right before a meet just to know whom we're hanging with. In a nutshell, we prefer to under promise and overdeliver if there's a vibe.