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SFr4r: An R4R forum for the SF Bay Area

SFr4r Moderators

Last updated: 10/16/2024
SF49r added 8 years ago
abourne added 5 years ago (also mods r/AskSF)
AutoModerator added 4 years ago (also mods r/PiercedCock, r/FatHentai, r/NarcoFootage, r/BetweenThemTitties, r/steroidsxx, and 4029 more...)
nowhere_near_home added 4 years ago (also mods r/sjr4r)
SFR4R_BOT added 4 years ago (also mods r/sjr4r)
NameToss added 4 years ago (also mods r/Hotwife, r/HotwifeAdvice, r/BayAreaHookups)

SFr4r Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• SFr4r Rules

As you can tell, the best way to get other redditors to look at your post is by utilizing the tagging system we have developed. Examples: [f4m], [m4f], [f4f], [m4m], [t4f], [t4m],[f4t], [m4t], [t4t], and [r4r]. If you are a couple or looking for a couple, please us a / to distinguish between ages.

Tagging Legend:

M - Male/Man

F - Female/Woman

T - Transgender

A - All

R - Redditor (platonic)

Example:

25 [M4R] Michigan - Have a ticket for the Foo Fighters this weekend. Who’s interested?

• Age & Age Range

Please specify your age in your post.

Example:

25 [M4R] Michigan - Have a ticket for the Foo Fighters this weekend. Who’s interested?

• Catchall

Don't be a jerk. Don't start conflict. Don't bait arguments.

If you've been banned and ask us why when you were either clearly being a jerk, baiting an argument, doing something we've already lectured you about, or breaking a rule that's very clearly outlined -- we'll probably make it permanent.

• Solicitation

Absolutely no solicitation or sale threads of any kind allowed. We'll make an exception for situations where dinner, concert/venue tickets are involved and you're seeking another party to attend with you. These are incidental to the idea of meeting with people; aside from that, nothing else for sale (including yourself). Don't ask for it, don't request it, don't hint at it, don't imply it. Don't ask for 'donations', don't prefer 'generous' people. None of that. You put the subreddit in jeopardy.

• NO SOLICITATION OF ANY KIND.

Absolutely no solicitation or sale threads of any kind. We'll make exception for situations where dinner or concert/venue tickets are involved & you're seeking another party to attend with you; aside from that, nothing else for sale (including yourself). Don't ask for it, don't request it, don't hint at it, don't imply it, don't put a cashapp or OF or have a history of transactional posts (sugar lifestyle, etc.) in your profile. Don't ask for 'donations', don't prefer 'generous' people.

• Post Frequency & Minimum Account Age

Please limit posts to 1 per 120-hour period. Accounts under 120 hours of age will not be allowed to post.

• No creeps

Do not post poorly-thought-out and desperate, unsolicited, and/or or illicit comment replies in threads or PMs. Respond to a post like a normal person: through PMs in a well-thought-out and articulate manner. Absolutely no unsolicited sexual PMs. Do not post "PM'd", "Messaged you", or any other similar message in thread comments.

• No Copypasta

No copypasta. Don't steal someone elses' post, tweak a few words, and repost. All posts should be your original content.

• Spam

Don't spam the subreddit or message posters with your services. This includes but is not limited to links to other subreddits, groups, discord servers, etc. This isn't a place for you to recruit.

• Mark all NSFW posts NSFW!

If you're posting something with NSFW content, either words OR links to NSFW images. YOU MUST TAG YOUR POST AS NSFW!

• No shaming / lecturing (If it's not for you, move on)

Absolutely no shaming, lecturing, or otherwise trying to instantiate a dialogue surrounding the individual criteria the poster is seeking. This is not the place.

• Private messages ONLY

Don't introduce yourself via comment. Don't comment telling someone to "PM" you. Write a single, well-thought-out, articulate, private message to the original poster that meets their request criteria.

• Do not share personal identifying information

Do not share your name, number, social media, messenger, or other alternative contact information in your comments or posts. This should be kept to DM only.

• Local users only

This subreddit is designed for meeting local redditors. It is not designed for pen-pals, or online-only interactions. Feel free to get to know someone and use discretion before meeting; but requests for 'sexting' or 'tribute pictures' or anything of the like will be immediately removed.

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