It's been a year since my last AP connection. It was perfect and I'm looking to find such perfection again.

I have a lot to offer! At the top of the list would be my authenticity. I have no hidden agendas or expectations of getting into your pants. Don't get me wrong, sex is great (see below), but chemistry is a subtle thing and expectations more often than not lead to disappointments. I would also be excited to offer my time in getting to know you. The process of discovering your awesomeness that perhaps get taken for granted by your SO is a fulfilling journey for me, filled with hope that perhaps you'll be the one and that my search for an AP can finally end. I intend to offer our relationship as one where we can truly be ourselves without judgement. We're all here seeking a forbidden fruit, so I will certainly not be casting any stones. I intend to offer you joy and laughter. I have a good sense of humor, and it is important to me to feel that I've made a positive difference in your day. I offer you dependability. I don't play games, and I don't ghost, and you can text me any time whenever you're feeling sad, lonely, or just want someone to shoot the breeze with. I consider myself an intellectual, and I offer to teach you things. If nothing else, it'll help build our shared interests. I offer you my appreciation and understanding. Whatever you're going through in life, you must be busy and I'll value your time, especially your free time where you can get away, from work, family, kids, the SO. I wouldn't take you for granted.

So far you must be thinking this is all great. Totally top notch friend-zone material. As they say on tv, but wait, there's more!

I offer romance and chivalry. I was raised to be a gentleman, e.g. I pay when we eat out, open doors for you, walk on the car side of the side walk. Birthday gifts, candle light dinners (whenever applicable), random surprises, just ways to make you feel special. I offer myself to be your arm candy. Admittedly beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but as for an asian american goes I look good. I dress well and I exercise a lot. I live a healthy lifestyle and watch what I eat, though I do indulge from time to time. Sex-wise, I'm an open canvas and open minded. I like kink but my irl partners hav been vanilla. Nothing wrong with that but I'm interested in exploring.

"You're too good to be true" you say. A lot of people do say I'm quite the catch. And there is a catch, which is I want the same in return. The love, the dependability, the appreciation. My life has been great and I'd like to share it with someone who appreciates me. To be frank (my name's not frank), my wife doesn't appreciate me, and the marriage is one of building a family. Perhaps you can relate. So I need an AP as an outlet for passion and love. I work a lot, and it's led me to who I am today. Financially independent, with the fascade of a happy a family with kids. But it's really empty inside this family, and inside my heart, and I need you to help me feel fulfilled. For which I'll be forever grateful.

If this resonates with you, send me a chat and let's get to know each other. You can friend zone me after that. :)