Is your SO a jerk? Does he treat you well? Does he care about you? Does he make you feel desired? Does he initiate sex? Hold hands? Say I love you?
I'm looking for an AP with someone who can relate to the feeling of being taken for granted. Because we'd have something in common. And chances are we can understand each other well, which is the basis of what I'm looking for. So I'm not interested in the cake eaters who are simply looking for more.I understand marriage is what it is, especially with kids, and it's easier said than done to move on. In a sense, I'd like to find an AP with whom we can be each other's spouse we wish we had. And in a way, that'd make life perfect.
I make a great husband. And I suppose you make a great wife too. Because people like us are often the ones who're taken for granted, and our excellence is simply expected. But we're human too and have needs for affirmation. For instance, I'm simply expected to fix and build everything around the house. I'm the designated garbage man, laundry guy, gardener, driver, toilet cleaner, sink unclogger, vacuumer, mopper, clothes sewing person. I'm the default person to talk to call the IRS and be on hold for 4 hours. I don't mind any of that, up to a certain point. Sacrifice is fine but once in a while a thank you or a hug or an I love you would be nice. But nope, none of that. Let alone sex or any form of intimacy.
So here I am, trying to find someone who have the same needs and the same void. I'm very easy going and easy to get along with. I'd just like to start off as friends and let whatever happens happen. If I make a BFF great. If it turns into a FWB situation, fine. My jackpot would be along term AP. What are you looking for?
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