Hi there! The title is facetious. Just wanted to highlight that I'm looking for someone local to the peninsula side of the bay area because for whatever reason people who message me typically aren't. I know I'm awesome, but I'm looking to meet and the distance makes it impossible and/or unsustainable.

I make a great AP because I'm laid back, considerate, understanding, and accommodating. Dating me would allow you to be yourself, happy and free, while sprinkling in my personality, wit, and charm. I am educated , well traveled, can play multiple instruments and speak over 3 languages. I can speak even more computer languages. I'm not intimidating, demanding nor clingy. I like to go with the flow without expectations. I've also had a couple successful affairs before, so I know the intricacies involved with opsec et al. I'm also respectful, funny, and most importantly not a psychopath. I hear that's important!

What makes me happy is simply to have someone who cares about me. Someone to look forwards to seeing. Someone I can care about as a person, a friend, a lover, as if it's an additional reason to wake up every morning. Ideally someone I can challenge intellectually and vice versa. If you're reading this, perhaps life's stagnant. I'd love to help bring you new perspectives and experiences to help you become more. What's the point of this journey called life if not for growth.

So I'm looking for someone who can fill up the tiny empty corners in my otherwise fulfilled life. My ideal AP would be someone who understands me, genuinely cares and wants to be in each other's lives long term. I'm married with kids but no spark and a deceased bedroom. The lack of emotional intimacy can feel defeating but I'm trying to stay positive so here I am deciding not to give up just yet.

Looking for someone who is also married and wants an in person connection, not just online. I'm funny, sarcastic, handsome and caring. I can carry a conversation about practically anything and I can promise I will make you laugh. Not interested in someone who will ghost, judge, ask me for money (lots of scammers...). I'm not in a rush, desperate or willing to settle for less than I deserve and I know I deserve a lot, especially true happiness. You deserve it too.

So...what makes you happy? Low gas prices I know. But what else? If you can relate or this post appeals to you at all, please reach out. Imagine us being the missing piece to each other's lives...don't let it be a missed connection that we'll regret!