First and foremost, I am married and not looking to leave my partner BUT I am out here looking for someone to chat with and maybe form a consistent chat partnership or relationship. I have no preference if you're single, attached, married or whatever. I'm looking for someone who wants to be there for me as I want to be there for you.

I am in the Bay Area, I would love it if you were local as I like to keep my options open to any potential developments, but I am not opposed to you being further. Connections are all about effort right? so even if there was a time zone difference, we could make it work if we wanted to.

I am respectful, honest and direct. I am often times thought of as the person you would want to bring around your family for how I can handle many situations with a calm and stern presence while maintaining a nurturing and supportive presence. At the same time I am the kind of guy your mom always warned you about. I have had my hair dyed a few different colors, pierced ears, tattoos and rode a motorcycle.

It took a long time to really learn who I am, and I can proudly say I am un-apologetically myself. I am open to who I am attracted to. I have a preference for someone who also is fit like me but I am also open to curvy women, and interested androgynous women who can pull off any look.

It is so hard trying to write about yourself and what you are looking for so here's a list with some more insights on me: - I have an excess of love and attention to give mostly due to my ADHD - I love horror, dark creepy things, paranormal, the occult - I REALLY enjoy chatting with people, but I would prefer to have one person to focus on - I am educated, have a great job, drama free and intelligent - I can be your dom if you're into the d/s dynamis (it is rather fun) - Semi-pro athlete (bonus points if you could guess which sport I played)

I would say that I am pretty goofy and fun. I enjoy making jokes and trolling when it is harmless. I can be the life of the party, and I enjoy dancing. I am a tall handsome man. I have done some small modeling gigs, love to dance and honestly enjoy getting attention. I am now asking to get this attention from you. Fair warning tho: I can be pretty seductive and I might be a bad influence for you but that should be part of the appeal

Who am I looking for: well for sure someone who is 18 but also someone under 45. Someone who is cool with my situation and also likes conversing through regularly. Someone who also is looking for something more than platonic and bonus points if you also are a gamer or athlete.

I don't want to label explicitly what and who I am looking for because one thing I have learned in life is that compromise is real and you often times don't find what you want; you get what you need. I view life as a journey filled with many side quests and adventures that lead you to cross paths with interesting and different people all the time. If you'd like to see about having an adventure, the door is wide open.

I am an open book so feel free to ask away, I'm more than happy to clarify any questions you may have about my post or myself.