Happy Friday. I am looking for someone to mutually be my other person as I want to be for them. I am married and not looking to leave my partner. I would more than likely be keeping you to myself as my secret, but I am open to you being an addition to our lives as a FFM.

I am open to communicating through the day, I actually would like that. I believe in upfront communication and being honest with each other. You know, lets be adult about this. I am open to whomever may come from this post; I am open to all walks of life and you might even be surprised by what I also am into. All I ask is that you be okay with my situation, and can maintain discretion.

I am what you would describe as a dynamic and complex person. While I am a drama free person, I do enjoy a bit of chaos. I have facets of my personality which combine into the eclectic person which I am. I am a romantic, passionate lover and partner. I would like to connect with a person that makes me want to listen to songs and pretend I'm serenading you. It is all about chemistry and I can say I was that guy in chem class you wanted to sit next to. Handsome, tall and intelligent; what more could you ask for?

I would love to pour my heart out and type until my fingers hurt, but I don't want to get too wordy so here's a list to keep things condense:

-Married, no kids. Not looking to leave partner

-Working professional, commute to work in different part of the bay

-Tall, Athletic, muscular. Brown hair, skin and well endowed

-Mixed ethnicity, bilingual

-Bay Area native, have lived in 2 other places

-If I was a spice girl I'd be a mix of scary spice and sporty spice. I like to dress like posh spice and sporty spice

-was raised religious but now I'm anything but that. Science dominates my world and a fan of all things dark/creepy

-love to laugh, being goofy and breaking tense moments

-can be dominant at times

-confident in all situations, my self esteem radiates and empowers others

-open to all applicants 18 -- preference is someone fit like I am

-a bit kinky, nothing outrageous but I am not 100% vanilla

-enjoy exercising and being outdoors

-"golden retriever energy, ADHD gamer boy"

-lets start online and feel out the natural progression of this interaction

I am a practitioner of "The way". Aside from this post, I will be engaging in non action on my search. If things come then so be it. I hope you take the time to get to know me, you will not regret it.

"For those who practice not-doing, everything will fall into place. "