Good evening, fellow Redditors.

This is a new type of post for me on a throwaway account because I have no idea what to expect.

Years ago, in my early 20s, I had my dick sucked by a man (a crossdresser) and it was the best blowjob I’ve ever had in my life. I’ve never told anyone this before: I was really horny and the time and felt weird about it afterwards so I chose to keep it to myself.

Fast forward to the present: I am absolutely attracted to females, and not men. However, a good dick is a thing to admire. Thank porn for that one I guess. I have experimented personally with anal play (dildos, prostate massagers, etc.) and find they I do enjoy the penetration. But it’s still me doing it, and I would like to know what it’s like to have someone else doing the penetrating. That could be a woman with a strap-on, or a man, or someone trans, etc. I’m pretty open and willing to try one or all of these depending on the connection.

I don’t know what prompted it today, but I was thinking about what it would be like to touch another man’s dick, and possibly try my hand and sucking a cock. This one I am a little more unsure of than the above mentioned anal.

I am willing to consider all proposals: females, males, trans, bi couples…

Since this is something uncharted for me, I’m not going to list any hard no’s. I’ll have to speak with anyone interested and determine if it sounds like a fit.

I would prefer a mutually beneficial sexual gratification going into this situation. Let’s chat and see where it goes!

A little about me:

• white
• 6’1
• solid, slightly chubby dad bod vibes
• bearded
• willing to share photos if I am interested in you
• sexually: mostly Dominant, but with this exploration, opening up to switch ; excellent grasp of the female body, very orally accomplished and good with my hands for women ; enjoy spanking, breath play, restraint -located in the East Bay, but willing to travel and/or host (including the Central Valley)

DO NOT: send dick pics unless requested. Please send a thoughtful message and not a low effort one. I will respond to all messages that I feel are in the spirit of the post, even if I am not interested to at least thank you for taking the time and so you don’t feel ignored.