I've been single since about a year before COVID, and then through all the isolation and uncertainty. I would like to change that if possible, but I'm quite introverted and don't have a particularly active social life, so it's difficult for me to meet potential partners.

I miss being physically close with someone who I know and trust, and I am thinking that I may not be the only one who misses physical touch and companionship without long term commitment.

I'm 6'2 180, white, cis male, single, no kids, in decent shape but not ripped. I have gotten a little soft over the covid period but it's not excessive (you can still tell I have abs, but you can only count 1 haha). I have salt/pepper hair, blue eyes, and get a little scruffy from time to time since I don't shave particularly regularly. For work I program, for fun I play/watch sports (golf, tennis, ski, football, baseball), read typically nonfiction books, enjoy true crime TV, and watch nerdy stuff like star trek. I also enjoy science/tech type museums, eating out, trying new bars/restaurants, etc. Politically I'm mostly liberal, but not particularly active or loud about it. I live alone with cats so there is plenty of room for "activities" at my place, though I'm also happy to go to yours and might have to if you don't have a car. I'm very type B/laid back/relaxed in general, and don't get worked up about much.

Sexually, I am on the dominant side but not super serious about it. I will certainly smack your ass and toss you around and have my way with you (consensually of course) but I am not into hardcore BDSM. I do have a strong exhibitionism streak (if you have or want an onlyfans I would love to make content with you) and I'm open to groups/swinging/sex clubs but that's mainly curiousity. I also enjoy sexual activities in risky/public/forbidden locations, creampies, and anal, though these are not requirements, especially creampies as we'd have to discuss the ramifications and get tested together etc. So in summary, as long as you enjoy giving and receiving oral, positions other than (but not excluding) missionary, and are open and communicate well about your desires and needs, we'll do fine. I am very willing and quite happy to explore other kinks with you too, if you desire.

I'm fully vaccinated against all current plagues except monkeypox. Don't give me the monkeypox!

I suppose if we vibe incredibly well I'd be open to a more committed relationship, but I am not looking for one specifically. I'm not a planner though, so what happens happens!

Send me a message and let's chat/swap pics/see what happens!