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42/43 [F4F] [MF4F] My cute, smart, fit and gorgeous bi wife needs a girlfriend. I’d love to help her find that awesome smart, wonderful girl that she desires.
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east-bay-m4f are a male/female couple ages 42 & 43 looking for a female in San Francisco, CA
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Hi there and thank you for reading!

This is a long post, I get it, but it really does help with saving everyone’s time if these important things are communicated upfront.

First, let’s get this out of the way. This post is meant for single females, it is not meant for anyone else (including couples). Solicitations are not welcome, please respect that boundary. Thank you!

Secondly, this is not a “hit and run” or ONS or NSA or anything of that sort. This is about finding someone who wants to build something meaningful, something that is worth the time investment and someone who is willing to put the time and energy into a wonderful person. Not rushing to get in bed here. No pressure for anything of that sort. I know, that’s a lot to ask for from a complete stranger but… hear me out.

So what’s the story?

Well, I’m married to this gorgeous, sexy fit and smart girl that happens to be bisexual. A couple of years ago we decided to welcome women into our lives so that she can explore her bisexual side with the idea of finding a special someone to build something meaningful. We dated as a couple or single always females only. We had many wonderful memories and experiences with partners but we never found a person that aligns with what she wants and what I want for her.

We had to take a break for a year and now she’s getting back into it but this time we want to really concentrate in finding the right person even if it takes a long time.

What is it she is looking for?

Well first of all, a girl that is truly into women. Not someone who wants to “experiment” or please someone else or get “bragging rights”. This is about finding a girl that’s really into her first and foremost. If that girl is into a couple dynamic and she clicks with me, that’s great, we’re a wonderful attractive couple. But the important thing is, she needs to be really into my wife and build that girlfriend connection with her.

She’s looking for a mature, emotionally stable and intelligent person that is not afraid of building relationships. Not the “Netflix and chill” type, but the type that genuinely seeks something more than a casual sex date. Someone stable who has their life together. Someone that cares and is willing to invest in this.

Health and physical and mental well being is of great importance. Use of drugs or excessive alcohol is a no starter. Having a promiscuous lifestyle, multiple simultaneous partners is a red flag and a health risk she is not willing to take. She concentrates on one partner at a time and seeks someone who is interested in the same.

Of course, attraction is important too. My wife is fit, sexy and gorgeous woman, that is beyond question. I’m not bad on the eyes either, but again, this is about her. So she’s attracted to the same really, someone healthy, fit, and someone who takes good care of their physical and mental health. She is sapiosexual so intelligence is a huge turn on and the ability to hold conversations in a wide variety of topics is a huge turn-on.

That’s it in a nutshell. Thank you for reading this far. If what you read sounds like something you’re curious about or willing to explore more, please reach out. We will gladly exchange pics and we always verify and require that once we chat and understand if we align.

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a male/female couple
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42 & 43
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a female
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