You should message me, if you want a no drama, long term, genuine connection. Here's why!

Firstly, I'm serious in my search for a lasting connection. I'm not looking to play with your emotions or waste your time. I'd want you to be a part of my life years from now. While I'm not looking for an LTR as I'm already in a dull marriage, I'm looking for a long term platonic friend, BFF, FWB, AP, little, sub or whatever chemistry we have. Whatever it is though, I intend to have you around for a long time. I hear often people looking on reddit are looking for flings, as if we're fast food (has this been your experience too?) I don't need another acquaintance. I have too many of those in real life. I'm sure you do too.

Secondly, speaking of getting to know you, I'm a great conversationalist. Not just because I have lived a little and have tons of stories to tell (and am opinionated about certain topics), but I actually care to listen. I am respectful and care to hear what you have to say and to understand you. Stereotypically I hear men don't express themselves well, so I try hard to not fall into that mold. I'm also open minded with a myriad of hobbies and interests so there's always a ton of talk about. I'm also funny. In fact I'm known for telling untimely jokes that cause spit takes. Also it goes without saying with regards to communication, I won't ghost you, so there's that too. Most importantly, I can actually carry on a conversation. My secret? I open my heart.

Thirdly, speaking of opening up my heart, I know it's silly to be vulnerable, on reddit to a bunch of strangers who are probably smashing the downvote button by now, but how else do you make a genuine connection? I'd like to be my most authentic self and show you all my hidden awesomeness, and I hope to make you feel comfortable doing that too, with time. You're not a marital status, age, body type, occupation, or whatever to me. You're just you, with all its beauty and flaws. Imagine having a person in your life with whom you can comfortably be your true self, say anything, think anything, do anything, without judgement. For example, you don't have to be PC, you can explore your inner most taboo kinks with me. I'll take care of you. It's liberating. That's the best way to explore life.

Fourthly, I'm a wonderful person as you can already tell. But wait, there's more! I'm attractive, confident, funny, and warm. I don't want to sound superficial so, inquire within!

So there're at least 4 incredible reasons to message me. So message me and let's see what happens. I can't promise we'll become the best of friends, but I promise the chance of us working out is higher because I actually care and I actually try and won't treat you like a flavor of the month. But please, don't message me if you're a terrible person (I know you're not...right?).