An update for you dirty redditors re: our post and how we fared in SF.

As usual, there were too many responses to treat with care and attention, and we flaked on/ghosted a number of perfectly fine gentlemen (and some creeps). Sorry folks, nothing personal. I was struck down by Covid a few days after the post, which didn't help.

However, we did strike up a few conversations, including with our imaginatively-named new friend, r/xanxanazncock. We had the usual video chat and she decided she'd be willing to go out on a date and see how seducing he could be.

As mentioned, I was first out of action due to Covid and then had to leave town on business, so this ended up being actually a proper seduce-my-girlfriend-no-three-way situation. Which it turns out she might actually prefer. At first we had set up a group text and then she asked if she could just text him alone so she'd feel less like she was being watched.

"B, the whole point is watching you," I said.

"Yeah, later, after I'm comfortable," she told me, and actually I get it. What I enjoy most is seeing her dive into her secret weapon, and if she's not feeling comfortable then it won't be much fun.

Anyway, long story short, they went out on two dates after which she was feeling at ease enough to go along with his suggestion of inviting her over to Crunchyroll and chill. She filled me in when I got off my plane six hours later.

"I made sure to leave the bed exactly the way we left it," she said. And how was that? I think I'll keep the rest of the details to myself, but as for our friend, she said he was excellently mannered and fun, (despite being half an hour late to their second date).

And that's that. We might try to do one or two more this month... so feel free to send some appreciation for my amazing, hot gf and who knows, maybe you will get lucky?