Hi all, I'm a kind, lighthearted, geeky and kind blind guy seeking friends with benefits, dates, and ongoing play partners. I'm in an ethically non-monogamous open marriage, am quite active in the kink and play party scene, although the pandemic has put a major halt to the latter, and I identify as a service top who loves to be a kinkstigator and follow directions.

I'm 37, 6'2", 235 with a broad build, white/Italian, trimmed beard, and am happy to share my Fetlife profile upon request. I'm DDF with recent results, fully vaccinated and boosted, and am seeking people who are into enthusiastic and informed consent, know what the FRIES and STARS acronyms stand for, big on open and honest communication, and who knows what they want or wants to explore that side of themselves.

Out of the bedroom, I'm a huge coffee nerd, a voracious audiobook listener, a Netflix binger and movie buff, a Bawdy Storyteller, and I make apps and websites usable and accessible to people with disabilities. I'm big on advocacy and inclusion. I love cats and have one myself. I'm a huge foodie and love exploring new places , don't have any issues in getting around the East Bay and SF, and will happily answer any questions you may have regarding my blindness and what it entails. I even wrote a blind dating primer which is fun to share! :)

My interests in the bedroom include giving oral, breast and nipple play, ANR, massage and sensual touch, rope, spanking, group and public play, toys, sensation play, praise, respect, and am open to reciprocation but never push for it, nor do I ever push for something outside of what we may negotiate. My hard limits are degredation and humiliation, have never been fond of that kind of headspace or energy when it comes to play.

So if receiving attention from a silly pleasure-giving blind guy sounds intriguing to you, drop me a line! Please use the message feature as the reddit chat is still annoying and not very accessible.