Hi all, I haven't posted here in a while and thought I'd try this out again. I'm 37, 6'2", 235, white/Italian, DDF and fully vaccinated and boosted, and as my title states, I do happen to be fully blind and I always do my best to be kind. :)

I'm in an ethically non-monogamous open marriage and I'm seeking friends with benefits and ongoing kink and play partners. I'm communicative, geeky, silly, well-read, lighthearted, and mostly identify as an extroverted introvert. I work in tech, but my job centers around empathetic design and making apps and websites accessible to other blind people and people with disabilities. When I'm not advocating for inclusive experiences, I'm perfecting my coffee craft, cooking and baking, annoying my cat, making board games accessible, playing the piano, binging movies and shows, and am also most likely down at SAP Center with my primary partner in our San Jose Sharks season seats.

In terms of play and kink, I'm a pleasure giver and a kinkstigator at heart. I love giving oral, breast and nipple play, ANR/erotic lactation, toys and insertions, group and public play, tying people up with rope, spanking, violet wands, nipple pumps, giving and receiving massage and sensual touch, and being told what to do and following directions. I identify as a service top with sub tendencies.

We moved to Oakland just before the pandemic and are just now starting to explore it, so definitely interested in exploring good coffee and foodie spots with folks. Happy to share my Fet profile if interested. Have any delicious coffee spots you'd like to check out? Need an experienced play party partner or want to break into the scene? Need a workshop partner? Intrigued by dating someone who doesn't know what you look like and focuses more on chemistry and personality plus tactile touch and sensation play? Poke through my post history to get a sense of me and my success stories and drop me a line! However, please actually message me as the chat is still quite problematic.