Looking for friendships of any gender for the time being. Not sure what to say about myself?

I guess honesty works.

Just went through a situationship-esque breakup ("it's just sex and strictly dick", she says before somehow ending up on dates almost every other day with her last guy)... hurt like a bitch to recover from, and now entirely confused on what I want these days.

Sex is great, but I've hardly ever liked just sex. If I wanted to be sweaty and bored and somehow not satisfied despite tons of orgasms, a night at home does me pretty well on that. But I deleted all 15 tabs of porn I had open and decided to post here, since I wanna sweat out bedsheets that aren't mine. :D

Friendships are great, until infatuation kicks in. But we're grown, we can navigate that or avoid it entirely for the sake of a great bond and casual vibing! Friendships AND sex? Perfect, until its either too much (i.e. boundary breaking) or not enough "friend" for comfort (i.e. I wanna go to the waterfront, not strictly the bedroom). And an actual relationship????

......actually yes, that would be neat, buuuut I've got issues and probably so does anyone else on here. Not opposed to it, its just a lot I'm processing and would take things at a slow pace. I've had a *lot* of shitty relationship endings lately, and don't want to be rushed, deceived, super hesitated on, or annoyed, yknow?

So I guess anyone who wants to get me out of the house every once and awhile to try a new food spot, visit a pretty area, and just not be hermits, come DM me. I'm happy to be your hermit helper if you can also be mine. Just be upfront about your intentions and desires, and if we see eye to eye, awesome! If not, hey, tons of fish out there for us.

Look through my post history before reaching out, but in a nutshell, message me:

• your name/what you wanna be called
• your age
• race
• height and weight
• your city, and if you can host and/or drive (I hate when I forget to ask, then I meet someone great, but then they're in Pleasanton with a bike or 6 roommates in one room...)
• and attach a selfie of yourself as well. (Preferably from the waist up.) Feel free to send a dick pic as well, if you're fine with that and aiming for a sexual interaction as well. Please make it recent as well. The pandemic's been hard on all of us, homie, I know the vibe. No judgement.
• And, what you'd like to do! Food meetups, cuddle friend, venting, random activities? I'm fine with that, but the main goal is someone pleasant I can meet for food, random drives, comedy clubs, city exploration, and things like that. And, if you've got a flexible schedule or are a night owl, then, hey even better. :)
• And just to show me you read all of this, put an odd niche interest you've been obsessed with recently in your subject line. For me? Courtesans in the pre-20th century. Hearing about La Macorina is amusing as fuck to me. Or amusing rags to riches stories, and how it pissed off royal courts whenever someone young and cute would just be plopped next to the King or whatever. Depending on the era, it says a lot about how society viewed promiscuity/purity/hot girls doing hot shit.

Worth noting:

• I don't do kik or snapchat, I'll give you my number though if I'm interested.
• If you're gonna send a one liner like "Still looking?", (i usually am, its fine to just message with what my post asks for sure,) or "Hey" or anything brief with next to nothing to know about you to warrant a response, you're gonna be ignored versus the cool people who at least tried. Shooters shot, don't expect success with a deflated ball and no game, lol.
• Also, huge paragraphs about things you can fantasize about doing to me weird me out if we haven't even started talking, personally. I wanna know you're a human before a pervert. Once I know you're like, a person not obsessed with sex and has a life, COOL, *then* we can let the freak flags fly. Just since for women, a huge difference between a polite intro message thats like "hey so I'm a 25 WM living in San Jose and here's my photo, you can call me (whatever) and I'm 5 ft 10, 140 pounds, and love checking out new restaurants and soccer, let's check out this one place" versus an anonymous and non-location or conversation having "cum for me baby do u want to meet for the sex?"
• DM or chat works for me! But Chat means lesser chance of getting drowned out. Just don't comment under my post, is all.

Prefer guys under the age of 28 honestly, probably won't read the messages of anyone older than that. Opening with "I'm a little older but-" will never not annoy me. (Shoutout to when I posted here at 18 about wanting younger than 24 to avoid creepy experiences, and every 26 to 70 year old hit me with the "hey I'm not TOO far in age from your limit, soooo" or "I'm young at heart"... That's great but I still have a type.) Sorry, but honesty is better right?

My description:

• 20 year old female (turning 21 next month! i dont drink but can finally attend certain events soon!)
• black/mixed
• 5 ft 7
• 130 pounds
• afro hair at the moment, a puff of brown coils under my hat
• D cups (but might be slightly smaller due to weight loss)
• dark sense of humor, but get told I'm wholesome sometimes
• I like to bake shit when I have the energy, I'm depressed, and I make YouTube videos, am obsessed with Berleezy these days, and I am fixated on the history of courtesans and the Mafia these days. Tell me about yourself!