Are you a man who knows how to take charge? Into setting rules and protocols, and training your partners to serve your needs?

Train me to be a good boy for you. I am in my 30s and chubby, with some facial hair. Trimmed/shaved down below. Hate receiving oral. Eager to please and hungry for a dominant who knows what he's doing and isn't in this just to get his cock wet. Sex is easy to come by. Let's strive for something more, for that spark that's ignited when you inspire me to truly give of myself, and hand over the reins to you.

Here are some of the things that make me tick... rope bondage/shibari, nipple clamps, humiliating language, rules and protocols. I actually even like being emasculated so if you're down for sissification, I like that, too and am down to wear all kinds of lingerie for you, like panties, bras, etc. I'll even dress up like a sissy maid or schoolgirl if you like. No, I can't pass as a woman anymore, but like any other sissy, I find it deliciously humiliating to be told to wear lace under my regular clothes.

I don't care about your body type or endowment... alphas come in all shapes and sizes. But I do need you to be able to string a sentence together and communicate effectively. I respond well to verbal dominance and confidence.

We're in a pandemic, so we'll want to approach meeting up with care. Are you okay meeting outdoors and masked and then going from there once we get to know each other a little better?

Usually I wouldn't look for exclusivity, but given COVID, being each other's only pandemic buddy makes sense. This does rule out married/partnered guys, so I know this might be hard to find especially on reddit, but I'm willing to wait for that needle in a haystack? That prince among the toads? You get the idea :-)

I live with roommates, so I'm happy to go to you, or I'm also open to figuring out if we can find a secluded outdoor spot.

Clarifying note about being trans/FTM: I am a man who was assigned female at birth. Pretty secure in my male identity at this point. Yes I still have a bonus hole, and yes I'm down to bottom either way. One of the plus sides of being exclusive is that you could breed me, and no, there's no risk of me actually becoming pregnant.

Okay if you've read this far, my DMs are open. Please tell me what you're looking for and why we might be a fit. If you describe yourself in reductive terms, e.g. "bbc" or "bwc", then we aren't a fit.