Hello all! I'm looking for a relationship that is predominantly sexual and casual/low key. I'd like to establish a rapport online before meeting in person. If things go well, and there is mutual attraction, we can negotiate more than that.

In particular, I'm looking for someone who is honest and mature about communication, desire, boundaries, and feelings, and I promise to do my best to reciprocate.

Me:

• 31 years old, about ~150lbs, 5'8". Dirty blonde with short facial hair. I get compliments on my smile and eyes a lot. I'm kind of married to the beard, sorry. I consider myself non-monogamous. I tend to be quiet and shy around new people, but once I begin to open up, I'm told I'm caring, respectful, and funny.
• Currently working as a CNC machinist. Been in the machining industry for the better part of a decade now. I love to talk shop about crafting/designing/fabricating.
• I live with housemates but have my own space. Willing to travel and/or host for the right person. While I enjoy being out and about, I do prefer to be a homebody and have to really be careful in balancing my extroversion/introversion.
• I'm very kinky and hope you are the same. Inquire inside for more details.
• I enjoy PC gaming, DnD, board games, hiking, driving, exploring new places, sampling new foods, creating things, collecting fountain pens and watches, whiskey, shared experiences, good natured banter, cribbage, dominos, cooking, shows of various sorts, dressing fancy, communication, bouldering, birding, reading, writing, exploring antique shops. I'm generally nerdy and make awful puns whenever I get the chance. #sorrynotsorry
• I keep active in the sense that I visit the gym regularly, but don't consider myself super into it. It's more a sense of obligation than anything.
• As of this posting I consider myself completely single. In a previous posting I indicated an old partner and I had reconnected; this is no longer the case. I still consider myself ethnically non-monogamous.

You:

• Honest, communicative, respectful, possess firm boundaries which you clearly establish early on and enforce if I happen to overstep them.
• Well kept, HWP, active.
• Kinky or interested in learning.
• Share some of the same interests and a desire to talk about them/explore new ones from time to time.
• Have a steady career/job/schooling/something that keeps you engaged in life.
• Between the ages of 25-35. Outside this range and legal is up for consideration.
• Care about your sexual health and are willing to get tested (I will gladly do the same if we reach that point).
• Clearly communicate what you want and don't want in bed. I have some experience, but everyone is different and I'm happy to learn your quirks as long as you tell me.
• Are single or in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. I'll be delighted to meet your primary (or others) if things get to that point, but I'm not going to help you cheat.
• Ideally located in the South Bay. Also, if you can host from time to time, that'd be swell.

Drop me a line if you're interested and we can see if we click. I understand this is a pretty specific list of things, but feel free to message me even if you fall outside on something and maybe we can work something out. Happy to share pictures once I'm sure you're a Real Human™. Put your favorite whiskey or jazz song in your message title. Take care!