I am a 45 year old mixed race (black and white), 6 foot tall, dadbod (220lb), with very short curly dark brown hair, dark brown eyes with glasses, and a scruffy face (usually).

Who am I:

I am a well meaning, inquisitive, and affectionate nerd with Dom tendencies whose happy place is either deep in the gutter or cuddling with a curvy woman (preferably naked).

I enjoy talking dirty, always mixed with praise (slut is not a bad word, in my view). I also find myself enjoying degradation from time to time if that is something my partner is into. No matter what, I want to leave my partner satisfied and enjoy the post glow of multiple orgasms as I hold her in my arms. Possible to do it all over again (hopefully), take a nap (then hopefully go again?), or rest before parting ways (not before verifying when we are going to meet up and go again). This is my happy place.

What I like :

- CURVES! In any adjective you prefer to use, be it Chubby, Curvy, Thick, Voluptuous, Phat, Baby Phat, BBW, or Rubenesque

- I like a little tummy. I am not going to lie

- I do have a thing for bite size women, but it is not required

- I LOVE TO GIVE ORAL. There is great joy in burying your face between your partner's legs. Coating your lips with her juices as you make her cum over and over again. Moving from between her legs and seeing the euphoria as she processes the multiple orgasms

- I enjoy dirty talk and like a filthy partner

- I like being on top, kissing and pounding, coaxing as many orgasms as possible

- I enjoy a woman on top, feeling her pound on me as I enjoy the beautiful view of her naked body

- I enjoy doggy

- I like making someone smile or laugh

- I like all forums of cuddling

What I seek:

- I seek a long term FRIENDS with benefits relationship

- I seek communication. I am not a mind reader. I will always value your opinions and thoughts. I will never judge you.

- I seek consistency. I am not looking to smother or be smothered, but value consistency, be it once a week, month, or year

I have a disability:

I was born with a mild version of cerebral palsy that causes me to walk with a pronounced limp. I live a normal, independent life, and my disability does not affect me sexually.

I can host in downtown San Francisco, in the Lower Nob Hill area, or come to you in the Bay Area.