Good evening Reddit. Yes, I have posted several times to this sub before. But as I continue on this journey, with some success and some not so successful meetups, I am learning more and more about myself and what it is I may be seeking. So here it goes: This will seem like an odd request but as a newly separated, soon to be divorced woman and I am hoping for new connections along the journey. A little about me: I’m 33 years old and was married for quite a bit of time. As I embark on this courageous journey, I realize it’s actually the connection I miss the most. And I am nowhere near ready to date. In fact, I may never be ready to date again. I am way too consumed with my own world right now and picking up the pieces of the last decade of marriage …but….i still crave interaction with the opposite sex. And I think it would be unfair to deprive myself of finding meaningful connection even though I’m not looking to date right now. I do find myself in a bit of a conundrum: it seems most people looking to seriously date will want commitment right away. And most people looking for just sex /FWB aren’t looking for real, meaningful connection but are fine with lack of commitment. So where does someone like myself fall into the categories…of not being able to commit but also not looking to strictly be someone’s FWB?

So what is it I seek? I think id just love to have someone to talk to at this point. Maybe somebody who has been down this path or is currently going down it themselves. Maybe someone to get coffee with occasionally. I want to hear your story and in return, I’d like to share mine. I am open to our friendship developing into something else, maybe something sexual, but I realize that in my healing journey, that isn’t quite what I initially seek. I also realize this won’t fit most men’s agenda. So I am prepared for this message to go nowhere. I am prepared to possibly never find what I’m looking for. But am also willing to put myself out there to give it a chance. So, if this message stands out to you, send me a chat request and let’s see if we can get talking. Tell me a little about yourself. What are your interests in life ? What is it you seek in your relationships with women? The age range in which I seek friendship with is about 30-45 year old men. Anything outside this age range is deal breaker. Also above 5’10 in height. Because if our friendship goes anywhere, I need to be eye level with you lol. If this message sparks your interest, please reach out and tell me more. * Please, No married men, no couples, no ENM*