I’m looking for a thoughtful gentleman to give me his jacket when I’m cold, open the door for me, and pull my hair back when I forget a tie (or just because). When we go to bed, you tuck me in, give me forehead kisses, and tie me up so I don’t fall off. You insist on helping me with facials because I love skincare and you’re such a considerate guy after all.

I’d love to find someone I can connect with on a deeper level and maybe even fall in love with, but obviously those things take time and I’m not trying to rush the process, though it would be nice to not be a fifth wheel with my friends on an upcoming trip to Japan and The Philippines late March.

So aside from a man who knows the art of utilizing masculine energy to rizz a woman that very much appreciates it, what else am I looking for? Shared core values, maturity, warmth, affection, compatible lifestyles. I get up early, go to bed early, work out regularly, don’t drink much. I like getting some sun and spending time outdoors with my geriatric dog. I enjoy the occasional trip to Napa, weekend getaways, watching football, girly shit, health/politics podcasts for the grueling work commutes, spending time with family and friends. I like spicy food, dark chocolate, Diet Coke, and a rare steak. I don’t have kids, but don’t mind if you do so long as there isn’t much baby mama drama.

It’s worth noting that I used to be morbidly obese but just a bit overweight now after losing over 100 lbs last hear (and looking to hit my goal weight soon). I’ve got medium olive skin, dark brown eyes and hair, a nice smile. You can find a picture in my post history.

If any of this piques your interest, feel free to send a thoughtful message with some info about yourself and why you think we’d have enough potential to at least meet (bonus points for a picture of you). Ideally you’re 33-45 years old, located in South Bay or up to like Redwood City area.