Hi! Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays! If you’ve found yourself on this post, I thank you for taking the time to click on it and read it. As the title states, Ive recently began looking for male connection again. It helps if you read some of my post history but if you haven’t, no worries. 😉 I have recently separated from my long time marriage with my spouse and am working up the courage to get myself out there in the dating world again. However, the scenario I seek is probably not a typical one. This is where reading up on my post history first would be beneficial, before reaching out to Decide if this is something you feel comfortable with.

The man I seek: I’ve narrowed it down to wanting to connect with either someone who is newly separated/divorced or a singleton, who doesn’t mind that I cannot fully commit right now. As I’ve spent some time checking in with myself and figuring out what it is I want, I think I’ve settled on chatting with recently separated/divorced men. Also with children. I think it helps to find people who are in similar stages of your life. Please, no married men. I myself am seeking short term with boundaries but open to those boundaries changing at some point in the long run. Ideally tall(ish) in shape, attractive and within the age range of 30-45. As I mentioned above, My situation is complicated so if you are ok with boundaries and respecting each other’s time and other obligations, then I think I may be worth your time. I preferably would like to chat a bit, feel each other out and see if we have any emotional connection first and then I am comfortable grabbing a cup of coffee.

I am a Bi-racial with caramel tone skin. Tall and slim. Considered attractive by many. I am open to chatting a bit to see if we connect and then ready to meet in person when we find we are a match. Weekends work best but could swing a workday morning with proper planning. We can grab coffee. Due to my complicated situation, I am unable to host so please keep that in mind. Please also be ready to verify with photos/video chat, etc. Thank you and I hope you enjoy the rest of your holidays!