Hey, I'm a 30 year old single straight male living alone in California. It's hard to make new friends and connections as you get a little older, so I'm trying to use other ways of meeting people like reddit. I know this is really shot in the dark but maybe it's worth a try? Overall I'm a pretty level headed guy just trying to make the most of my limited time here on 🌎. I value deep meaningful connections, loyalty, trust and I'm completely monogamous. (Unless there's things you are interested in trying etc). I also really value time and experiences, like if you go through stuff with someone over time it, just builds a bigger bond and foundation. I don't typically like meeting new people or trying to bring new people into my life. It's usually a shit-show haha. I want to find my person and throw away the key. (I'm okay with meeting people and making friends it's just hard to know someone true intentions etc) anyways.

I enjoy RnB and soul music, I also love indie music and underground hiphop. I'm mixed raced,(not white) handsome-ish and pretty much all by myself lol. No crazy ex's, no kids, no roommates, and a very small friend group. I enjoy exploring the region, running, beaches, concerts, themeparks, and trying new things. I'm really looking for someone to talk to, get to know and potentially enjoy life with, you know the simple things like just going to the park or just getting a pizza and watching a movie. My energy level isn't what it used to be, so I'm really not trying to keep doing this dating thing over and over lol I'm trying to make someone stay, and I'll stay in return haha. I do play video games, love comedy, indie films, and any type of art with real meaning. I love animals as well! I like to connect on a deeper level, but I also love to joke around and just talk to my person about anything and everything. I'm also a big believer than money and love have no correlation.

For you?

I'm attracted to women of all ethnicities. Please know who you are, and who you aren't. Please be past your partying or exploring phase. I like a woman with morals and respect. I don't mind having fun every now and then, but yeah I'm not trying to be at a bar every weekend. Ideally you'd be somewhat fit, I'm always working on myself and I'd love to team up with someone
but I'm unfortunately not really attracted to bigger body types. I know mutual attraction is important to some level for everyone. Other than that, someone who is level headed, resilient, fair, funny, goofy, awkward, etc. Someone who communicates well, doesn't hide stuff or play games. Someone not tied up in social media all day, and enjoys actually living life without their phones. Someone who loves animals and cares for them in someway.

Let me know if you've made this far.